PINA LAZARA CHANNELLING ANCESTORS WoRKInG on FAMILY HIstoRY

When people come to me for a healing session, whatever their reason might be, I tell them in the first few minutes what I can help them with. Also that a session with me is sort of the opposite of having a massage session. Whilst undergoing a massage you are, mostly quiet and relaxing. During a session with me you are participating in your healing journey, the relaxation will be after the work done. A healing session can be life changing. For more info you can visit the home page: What happens in a healing session? Thank You, Pina.

WoRKInG on FAMILY HIstoRY

When I finally began to work as a medium, all kinds of benevolent energies came to

help me in a healing session. Over the years I became more and more receptive to the

client’s ancestral realm. Most spirits//angels are deceased relatives who come to help

in their family member’s healing. This could be a grandparent, parent, aunt, uncle, sister,

brother, child, cousin, niece or nephew. 

Some recurring themes in my healing sessions were related to family history and its patterns, 

especially in cases where trauma has taken place within the family line.

This was a total revelation to me. By helping people with their family history,  I came to 

understand the journey of my own life more.I realised that I am indeed a conduit for the 

wounded healer and my life purpose is to serve others.The Universe was happy when I

finally came to trust this particular guidance. My distress was over. One of my guides

was particularly pleased with my development. He had been patiently waiting for my 

understanding for many years, in fact since the day Lara passed over.

Now that I was fully following his directed guidance, we could finally work together properly.

                                     WHEN THERE IS NO COMMITMENT,
                                     EVOLUTION CANNOT TAKE PLACE,
                                     NO MATTER WHO IS INVOLVED IN
                                     THE RELATIONSHIP. ’Madan Gopal'.


The family ancestors, their wisdom and unconditional love, can help to heal any
family matter. The trauma can be emotional, verbal, physical or sexual and doesn’t
have to have happened to the person coming for a session. It could be that negative
behaviour patterns have always existed in people’s relationships within the family.
Even if the abuser is not in the person’s life, trauma could still be a disturbing factor.
Unfortunately many people believe they should just ‘get on with it’. This is a message
from the ‘good old days’, the days when you didn’t talk about what was hurting
you. It causes people to put on a big smile and hide what’s going on inside them.

People sometimes think that ignoring pain makes it go away, but in reality it magnifies
the pain even more, prolonging it so that the abuse lasts for ever. Living a life of emotional
pain is like reliving the abuse every day. It will be like an aggressive wasp inside our heads,
our hearts, our bodies. It will keep hurting until we look at it straight on.
When the day comes that you want to try to be free of guilt and low self-esteem,
have the courage to change those patterns. When you can say to yourself,
‘I want to feel good about myself and to feel beauty-full’
and ‘I want to end my suffering and feel my courage and my own strength’,
then a new door will open in your life.

Whatever has happened to you, you must try not to let it ruin the rest of your
life. Stop giving away the best part of yourself. We are more then our minds. We are
more then our bodies. We can learn that we don’t have to be afraid anymore of what
other people think of us or say about us. Our hearts are born full of good intentions.
Illness comes from emotional stillness. Anger, fear, sadness and pain will only go
away when you dress their wounds with kindness and address your pain. What has
caused your fear and sadness? What are the real underlining reasons for it? What
triggers the suffering to surface again and again?

If you didn’t like your hand, your leg, your nose, would you cut it off?
Ignoring these feelings is like emotional mutilation.
One day, a good day, these thoughts that linger under the surface of our mind will
rise up and refuse to be denied anymore. This will be a positive moment, because
you can finally start the healing process before your pain sets in train a chronic illness
or other serious problem. All negative behaviour is negative reflection. When
you hold other people’s thoughts in your head and your heart, their words can rule
your life.

‘ANGER NEEDS TO BE CONTROLLED, BUT NOT HIDDEN FROM
YOURSELF.’ Quote from His Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama

EXCERPTS of PAGES 151-152-153 OF MY BOOK:
Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis

IMAGINATION IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN KNOWLEDGE. KNOWLEDGE IS LIMITED; IMAGINATION ENCIRCLES THE WORLD

That is where I am when writing ONLY VISITING THIS PLANET. I love to let my imagination go before me, setting out a course. Most times I arrive at a crossroad facing the every day reality. I realize more and more that the world can no longer only be embraced by dreams, or encircled by imagination. Nowadays there is a stronger grip shaking our world more and more by Big Climate and Social Changes. So writing OVTP is a mixture of fiction and pinch of reality.

LOVE IS THE ESSENCE OF THE SOUL CHRYSALIS is more the opposite, a book about how big reality pinches caused me to create allegory stories and becoming myself... Opposites or different, they are still connected, again, by karma... So are we all, humanly, spiritually and universally connected. So wherever you are in our world, don't give up on oneself, each other, or on our Planet Mother.

                                                                          RE-POST 2018

DEAR COURAGEOUS SOUL YOU ARE APPRECIATED. THANK YOU FOR BEING.

                                                                     RE-POST NOV 2019

LOVE IS THE ESSENCE OF THE SOUL CHRYSALIS

Het hart, het hart, de drager van de ziel; de ziel, de ziel, drager van het lichaam. Wat ben ik eigenlijk? De geur van vuur? Botten en bloed omhuld door huid. How wonderbaarlijk is ons lichaam!

Gedeelte uit pagina 50: Liefde is the Essentie van de Zielen Cocon

The heart, the heart, the carrier of the soul; the soul, the soul, carrier of the body. What am I anyway? 

The scent of fire. Bone and blood surrounded by skin. How wonderful is our body!

                                Excerpt page 53: Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis

DO YOU REALISE HOW SPECIAL YOU ARE? DO YOU REALLY?

You are SO unique, there is only one like you!!!

Nobody else thinks like you, feels like you, talks like you

screams like you, cries like you, laughs like you, breaths like you

moves like you, expresses like you, loves like you, creates like you.

Realise that for a while and then look at yourself in a new way.


              And next time when you look at someone else

REALISE HOW SPECIAL THEY ARE,  YOU ARE,  AND WE ALL ARE


Be nice to yourself be nice to others be nice to all that we are.

We are all an important part of the puzzle we are all here for a reason.

A reason we do not always understand or can feel straight  away.

                Some do and some don't and when not yet, then

             LET THAT SPECIAL FEELING GROW INSIDE OF YOU.

                                                  Until you do


Excerpt: Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis

Re-Post Dec 2018

I work with people so that they can heal and change in a positive way. For some there is a lot of work to do and for others less. Some people have to work on old karma and others on new karma. Healing doesn’t always come in the form that we expect. We have to be patient, open our hearts and trust that good is there for us. We must surrender to our-self, to our beauty within and to the Love of the Universe, as we are its children.

We can only recognise words that resonate within our heart, body and soul as a part of our own journey. People always meet me at the right time in their life. How do I know this? After many years of being me and doing this work, I just know!

Excerpt Page 1: Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis

Re-post Dec 2017

WHAT IS SPIRITUAL HEALING? PART 1

"Spiritual Healing is a completely natural process. It's non-invasive and it is fully compatible with any other type of medical treatment. The practitioner will channel energies through to the patient, so that she/he can reconnect to her/his natural resources and power." SOURCE: GOOGLE


"Pina never ceases to amaze. She is an incredible person, infectiously happy, positive and underneath a strong and powerful healer. I have had a numerous number of treatments with her, all of which had a positive and subconscious effect on me and my psyche...my inner me. Pina's healing ability is undeniable and time and time again I tell everyone I know to try her magic... It works on all levels, for every type of person and for each of their problems. " L. T : West Cork


THANK YOU SO MUCH L.T, FOR ALL YOUR LUV AND SPREADING THE WORD! P x

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                                                                   OR as PAPERBACK

IN THE MIDDLE OF DIFFICULTY IS OPPORTUNITY

Aren't you sick and tired sometimes of always wanting to prove that you are a good boy or a good girl? Consciously or unconsciously? Don't you just want to get out of that mode? Of course you do, lets be honest. Being a boy or a girl doesn't suit your spirit anymore when your body in the mean time has grown up to be a man or a woman. It makes you tired, sometimes even exhausted and feelings of being sick. What you actually are sick of is that running around for that life of approval!!! Running around and doing things you actually don't want to always do or anymore.

Listening to the same stories, reacting on the same things over and over again in the same way, like as if you are still that same person. You gadda tell people that you still love them but that you have changed over the years and that you want to break the patron which hold you and them in the same place and that you want do things different sometimes. It is okay to say no sometimes.

When you say yes to yourself it doesn't make you a bad selfish person but in that way you can start again making time for yourself and allowing yourself to feel that you DO have a good heart and that you don't mind to do things for others but that you want to do it in a way that feels right for you... and when it comes from the right place it doesn't take any effort. Then it doesn't make you feel out of balance. If you are doing things you don't wanna do your mind will remind you, but most of the time we dismiss our own mind, not giving our-self the time of day...NO, if you are doing to much your body will also let you know... allow to feel what your body is telling you...this conduit of your soul.

There is opportunity in difficulty, it gives you a change to find out who you really are, indeed a loving person!...but just by overdoing yourself you can get burned out and then what? Then you lay in bed sick and or tired and the others continue their lives without you. When I was younger I was always helping others, but I also was tired most of the time, had pains and aches AND was cranky a lot to say the least. Those feelings of not always being able made me feel bad, and myself out balance.

Today I still like to help but not anymore when I feel it makes me sick and/or tired. That doesn't help nobody. When to much takes over we are indeed getting sick and tired and that is not what we want. We want be happy while we are helpful and kind. So go and find out what your balance is! You don't have to always go to the top of the mountain, halfway there is enough beauty to see... Go to the top when you feel like it...when you have the energy and are happy to do so...

  
Have a nice day...Pina

SOUL ZEPHYR

The soul zephyr is fast like a boundless glide. It is made out of all possible
emotions and twinkles with all the wonders to see. Never close the eyes of your
heart when you travel that road. Don’t even hold on to anything, just feel the breeze
caressing you. There is only one journey and that is to follow the guidance from everyday life. 
See where the next bend leads you. When anger, pain or fear come along,
you will shrink again and could encounter even tougher lessons. It may be that you
still have not learned the lessons of your previous life. When these emotions leave
you, you will have learned again. Next time, look for the gentler lessons of love. That
road is so much smoother and feels more rewarding.


Excerpt from page 29, kindle version & page 38, paper back version of:
Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis


For all children of the Universe
Every day should hold the same urgency
While following all directions            
Feel what you do and do what you feel

ANGELS DEITY MYSTERY SPIRIT GUIDE

Messengers of the Divine – angels, spirit guides, mysteries, deities, ancestors, 

whatever name you give them – are energy beings consisting of wisdom and love. 

All throughout our life they bring us healing through insights and understanding. 

When we are receptive to their signals, they can bring us a world of good, in the form of

inner peace and trusting your destiny. These are very useful qualities to receive once

we are open to their guidance, living our lives according to the Creator of us all.

Even when you don’t believe in angels, spirit guides, deities or mysteries, they

keep on believing in you. Even when you don’t believe in yourself, they keep on

believing in you. Even when you close your heart to push them away, they stay.

They understand that it is difficult for us to believe in them, especially when we are

in pain. Some people find it challenging to believe in what they cannot see and tend

to look for proof. All the divine beings do is care for us and pray every day that one

day our heart will open to feel their presence, or ‘loving guidance’, inside of us. 

And then everything is possible…  

Excerpt page 99: Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis

I LIKE TO CALL MYSELF AN INSPIRER

Most people experiencing their first session tell me that they have never experienced anything like it before. I explain them that during the healing session I am the medium between the energies, but that the allowing of the energies to work through them is the real work. The energies we are working with all come from the Spiritual world and are very supportive. I inspire the person to follow the process that comes their way during the session. To allow the process of letting go and being able receiving guidance. Letting this take place in trust and surrendering to the loving healing energies of the Guardian Angels or Spirit Guides.

-Learning to take the path of self acceptance and that it is time to shine your light and show the world what you  are really made of. But the mind cannot see itself completely. However, the principal toll for purifying the mind is the mind itself. The mind is its own creator, at every instant. Hence its responsibility, which is essential. -  Insight of its Holiness the 14th Dalai Lama.

We are all created  for a reason and are all equal. We are all here as a piece to fit the puzzle called life. IF ONLY we allow ourselves to free oneself from the burdens we or others have put upon us. If we have allowed that to happen to us, out of guilt, fear or whatever reason is not important anymore. More important is stop dragging that negative patron with you in your every day life. Start following the road of self discovery and ask yourself, WHO AM I? If you allow yourself to travel that journey in its positive light of love, you could be amazed what you find out about yourself and WHO YOU REALLY ARE. We are all a reflection of each other. It is of great importance to be nice to yourself and others. I myself could have never come this far as I am today without the love and reflections of others. I am grateful for this every day.


It is difficult sometimes to allow our self to think or feel that we are

            BEAUTIFUL           BEYOND                   MEASURE

- Excerpt Poem Miriam Williamson-

If you have lived a life of thinking that you are a nothing or no good for nothing, please give yourself another change! Cry, sigh, laugh, scream, crawl, talk, stumble. It does not matter how you get there as long as you get there. Above all don't give up on yourself, don't give up on each other, don't give up on our world. Don't forget that you like all of us are here for a reason. More about that later...

Excerpt of work in progress : 369 : It's about time

Published  in 2014 as : Love is the essence of the Soul Chrysalis

YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO GIVE YOU PERMISSION HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE

Honestly, you got permission to live your life on your day of birth. Use your knowledge of that freedom as you can remember it. Follow your heart, that compass of love and respect, your intuition, your spirited mind. Maintain a positive attitude, use your birthright with wisdom and kindness during your life. Dig deep down in your own being and create your own magical story. Make the best of who you are, that is why you are here. Just be nice and respectful towards yourself and others, that is what is most important. Along your journey pick up some kindness and spread it around like stardust. Wherever you go, sparkle and shine your magic...

Exerpt of page 86: Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis

ENERGY ALWAYS FOLLOWS INTENT: PART 2

Energy always follows intent. Believe me, there is ALWAYS a way out, when you are willing to look at yourself and want to change your behaviour, not the behaviour of others. Give yourself loving time and understanding. If you feel you can’t do it alone, look for help.

When you begin to talk about your experiences, you might be surprised that others sincerely want to listen. The ones who are listening may have experienced similar things and may totally understand you, or they may have had a happy upbringing and just want to be there for you. When you begin to trust them, you will start to feel better. 

Slowly you will come to understand that you are not as alone as you always thought you were. Thoughts of fear and guilt can transform. The day will come when you can feel the true essence of who you are, a ‘beauty-full’ being of love and light. You may welcome your true self with tears or with a smile. Embrace yourself as you would welcome your best friend.  

Excerpt of page 15 Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis. 

LOVE IS THE ESSENCE OF THE SOUL CHRYSALIS # HAVE A HAPPY VALENTINES WEEKEND # TOUCHED BY LOVE

Upon stumbling in the forest one day, I came across a spirit floating my way. "Who are you?" I quickly demanded. "I'm cupid!", the little fellow added. "Impossible!" I immediately shouted for cupid does not exist; there is no angel of love". "But do you not see my wings and arrows?" "Ha, easily manipulated by my own eyes".

 " But stranger, do you not believe in heavenly love, which makes the cruelest man innocent and pure as a dove". " In fairy tales I do not believe, only solid structures could I conceive". "Oh cried cupid, "how have a laxed in my part". And as I turned to walk away, I felt an arrow pinch my heart".

 ~ Author unkown ~

                                Image by Pina


“Love is the bridge that leads from the I sense to the We, and there is a paradox about personal love. Love of another individual opens a new relation between the personality and the world. The lover responds in a new way to nature and may even write poetry. Love is affirmation; it motivates the yes responses and the sense of wider communication. Love casts out fear, and in the security of this togetherness we find contentment, courage. We no longer fear the age-old haunting questions: "Who am I?" "Why am I?" "Where am I going?" - and having cast out fear, we can be honest and charitable.”
~ Carson McCullers ~ The Mortgaged Heart: Selected Writing ~




My book: Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis was published as E book on Valentines day February 2014. The book launch was on my 55th Birthday @ July 20th 2014. To celebrate the 2 year anniversary the book is now for sale for E 10 only! Happy Valentines day! With love Pina.

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UNIVERSAL INTENTION

     

The intention of the Universe is for all of us to grow up feeling good about

ourselves, living our ‘given’ lives, shining our light. When we follow our karmic

journey, we are guided by the wisdom to choose love. When we remember lessons

learned from lives lived before, we are using the proper tools, which are offered as

our birthright.

     Do not try to be an Einstein when you are actually a Matisse. They were two

totally different gifted people yet equally important to the world. In one lifetime

we are here to live from the heart and in another from the head, one time healthy,

another time sick. However, when we are reincarnated, we all have to live a life of

seeking and finding. 

     We get so much support and opportunities from the Universe to really 

become who we are, but most of the time we are the ones who don’t believe

in ourself. We punish ourselves inside our own heads. Stop being your own worst

enemy! Stop sabotaging the ground you walk on! Don’t be frightened of stumbling,

falling or crying! When you fall, get up, smile and hold your head up high while

trying again. Welcome yourself as you would welcome your best friend!

Exerpt of page 10 of: Love is the Essence of the Soul Chrysalis



‘HUMAN AFFECTION IS THE FOUNDATION OF PROPER DEVELOPMENT.
 His Holiness, the 14th Dalai Lama